When the copper in sterling silver reacts with acids, it turns color (generally black or blackish). You can hasten this intentionally with
Liver of Sulfur or other chemicals. Some people tarnish metals, especially silver and copper, FAST. These people are usually excellent at "testing" jewelry to see if it is plated, too -- they eat through platings fast.
Her best bet is to get earrings that you can switch the findings on -- so anything with a loop.
You might want to try some
Argentium sterling silver earring findings. My favorites are the
Oval French Clip Ear Wires since they are basically a hoop earring that snaps shut. I use them for all types of "quick-change" earring designs. You could add a single pair to your next order, to give them a try. Argentium is more resistant to tarnish than traditional sterling. I think she'll probably still tarnish them though.
These
black niobium ear wires are nice, and don't clash with most designs. Niobium is a very inert metal -- it doesn't react with most things, so retains its color.
We don't have any drop-loop posts in Niobium or Titanium =(
But we do have
flat-pad posts in Titanium, which you could glue on as replacement posts for some designs.