Hi there,
I am somewhat new to metal jewelry and soldering and I have encountered a problem, maybe someone would have some knowledge to share with me regarding this topic.
So my problem is that i just can't seem to be able to solder 2 large pieces of jewelry together, one silver and the other brass. When i do very small pieces it works just fine, with both soft benzomatic solder and medium silver solder. But with the large components, I can't seem to heat up the pieces to be hot enough to use with silver solder and when I use the soft benzomatic solder, no matter what I do the 2 pieces will not join together-- the solder just turns to a ball. Even when it does melt onto one of the surfaces, it just scrapes right off, so I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
I now ordered some stay brite solder, maybe I will have better luck with it. But I am very unfamiliar with using soft solders, do you have to heat up both metals to very hot like in silver soldering for them to join with the solder? Any tips or suggestions would be very helpful

Thank you!