Chiming in as a person who has a hard time mastering new tools & equipment (let me introduce you to my earring jigs and soldering stations), a micro torch is extremely easy to use. If you can master a cigarette lighter, you can master a torch.

(The teeny-tiny torches that really are the size of a cigarette lighter probably get hot enough, but they just don't hold enough fuel to get anything done.)
These micro torches are the ones just under 6" tall; you can buy at the hardware store, kitchen supply stores, big box stores with hardware departments. I have several, including one from Rings & Things--I know they always offer the best of anything they're going to sell. But I also found one at T.J. Maxx for $14, in the cooking section. They all work great! (I have to buy multiples because I'm always losing things.) Buy one with a slightly-larger flat base that acts as a stand, I bought mine before they came with that feature & my torch always falls over when I set it down. The wider base makes it easier to set down & safer.
I took one class on metal clay, take Metalman's offer to find you a class. It's worth every penny! You'll get to try lots of different stuff and figure out what techniques you want to focus on and the minimum equipment you need to get started. You'll SAVE by eliminating a lot of expensive trial and error (buying stuff that isn't quite what you need, or more expensive than necessary, etc.)
Hope this helps,
Luann