I'll answer your questions in reverse order, the easy one first.
B) "Tinning" is coating the tip of your iron with fresh solder. If the tip is black and/or corroded you may need to file the black off to get clean metal before tinning. The reason you want your tip tinned is so it transfers heat faster. The black corosion "insulates" the tip from your work and the work never gets hot enough to melt the solder. In the other threads in this section, tinning is discussed in more detail.
A) All the soft solders are based on tin and/or lead because they are have a low melting temperature. They are white or silver colored. I don't know of any yellow color low melting temperature solder. Jewelers get around this by various methods.
1) Costume jewelry is plated after soldering. Tiaras are a good example. Rhinestone chain and other parts are assembled, solder is flowed to hold everything in place the the whole piece is plated a uniform color. Most crafters don't have this option unless they send the goods out to a plating shop.
2) Tube rivets are used to assemble a stone setting, metal filigree and a pin back together. Look at costume jewelry pins from the 50's and 60's. There is one rivet used to hold all the part together. The end of the rivet is flared over (swadged) with a swadgng press or hand held tool.
3) Art jewelers use similar methods to pin metal, bone, found objects, etc together. Metal pins, "nail" headed pins or rivets are used to hold the parts together. Sometimes several pins are used in the same piece. You can see this in Metalsmith magazine, College art department exhibits and "art jewelers" work at museums and juried craft shows.
4) There are some yellow "brazing" wire solders that are used with a torch to produce a yellowish color join. The torch gets the metals so hot any platied finishes will be burned off or discolored. These are much higher temperature products. If you are doing gold jewelry you might as well use low karat gold solder.
5) Fine jewelers working in karat gold use karat gold solders with a high temperature oxy/propane or oxy/acetylene torch.
6) Fine jewelry work in modern shops is now done with a laser, often by welding fine gold to fine gold without solders.
Back to soft soldering with tin based solders- -
Try it with some pieces where the white solder won't show from the front. Try it with some junk pieces that you won't mind experimenting on. Get a feel for how the solder flows to the hot parts. You don't melt the solder onto the work, you get the work hot enough to melt the solder when you touch the solder to the hot work.
Re-read the other threads in this section. Until you actually see (and feel) how it works it's very hard to explain with words. Let me know what other questions you have.
ps.... as I reread this whole thread I'm reminded that this is a major project for school. You might get a lot of extra credit for using method #3 above. Forget about soldering and learn to mechanically assemble your work using pins and rivets. Find some copies of Metalsmith magazine and look at some of the outstanding assembled work shown there. Ask your local art school or museum about local artists who use this "upscale" method and try to get invited to their studio. Most would be honored you are asking to learn from them.